I have many problems in my life. Mental problems, professional problems, anxiety and whatever.
I don't really see any woman around my age (late 20s/30s) wanting to date someone like me.
If I was a woman I would never want to date someone like me.
It feels like a prison and a drawn out torture. Never dating someone makes you being even more undateable.
Everything goes around shame and not feeling able to do anything about it
Now some people will say that there is always someone waiting for you at the end.
But no one likes to feel like a consolation prize. I don't want to feel like I got the "person who was left out" or someone who just decided to stay with me out of pity.
I don't really see any woman around my age (late 20s/30s) wanting to date someone like me.
If I was a woman I would never want to date someone like me.
It feels like a prison and a drawn out torture. Never dating someone makes you being even more undateable.
Everything goes around shame and not feeling able to do anything about it
Now some people will say that there is always someone waiting for you at the end.
But no one likes to feel like a consolation prize. I don't want to feel like I got the "person who was left out" or someone who just decided to stay with me out of pity.