Do you get sick of people that tell you to be a certain way? Sometimes people tell me to stop looking so miserable, be more social, lighten up, don't take things so seriously. They shouldn't be telling me to be that way because they are not me and they don't know my situation. I could tell these same people to change things about themselves. For example, lose weight, stop doing so many drugs, don't cheat on your significant other, go back to school. But I don't know their situation or what causes THEM to be that way so I can't just tell them to be different.