Does anyone else have someone in their life who just doesn't understand their mental problems, and whenever you go to them with something new that is bugging you, they try to rationalize it so to make it seem like there is actually no problem? I'm currently freaking out because I am discovering more and more about myself that I don't like since I realised that I most likely have BPD. It's making me realise things about myself that I don't like, and when I mention it to him he always tries to make it seem like things maybe aren't as bad as they actually are, or that there is no problem. I know he's probably just trying to be helpful but it is more irritating than anything. These traits about myself are REALLY HARD for me to accept about myself, and the last thing I want when I confide in someone is them trying to make it seem like there isn't even a problem!!!! How to cope with people like this? He's supposed to be my best friend!