People who back you into corners.

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Random, Jun 2, 2011.

  1. Random

    Random Well-Known Member

    Why do people think this helps? I really don't friggin get it. I'm not talking about people who are trying to be mean. Or at least they don't seem to think they're being mean. Why do people who know you have problems insist on backing you into corners thinking they're somehow helping you?

    I don't know about anybody else but when someone does this to me, it drives me nuts and just makes me worse. I go into total avoidance mode. I go into my room and lock the door and only come out to go to the bathroom or eat.

    I hate that crap! I hate the feeling of utter helplessness! Why? Sometimes I think if they would just all back off and leave me alone for a while I might be able to think my way out of this. But when I'm constantly feeling trapped, I can't think straight.
  2. ConfusedSilence

    ConfusedSilence Well-Known Member

    I know what you mean. People take your problems and twist them into blackmail "for your own good". I guess they want to help, but it's not helping.

    I hope things get better for you.
  3. doityourself

    doityourself Well-Known Member

    Hope today has treated you better.