People lie. They criticize you for your personal issues, then beg you to open up more. They say silly things like 'i'll stay' 'i understand' 'it'll be ok' right before ditching. They expect you to stay, but refuse to offer any of what you give them. They say 'i forgive you, now f' off' They tell you how worthless you are, despite the fact they're no better off. People expect you to be there/ perfect, but not do anything negative towards them.