Pissed Off!

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Marshmallow, Nov 20, 2008.

  1. Marshmallow

    Marshmallow Staff Alumni

    You know what pisses me off, that because my name is orange on the forum and i have the ability to ban, edit and delete post I'm expected to sit back and take the shit thats thrown at me? Guess what ... no fucking way.

    All my poxy pathetic life i've had abuse thrown at me, you've all told me at one point or another to stand up for myself. Don't contradict yourself's and say i should sit back and take shit left right and centre. I don't care if im a mod or the fucking queen of sheba, i ain't taking shit off anyone anymore.

    Got a problem with me then fucking bring it to me cos if you think ima sit back and take it cos of a responsibility i've got, then your fucking seriously mistaken.

    I'd rather loose my mod status then take shit off anyone, simple as. Don't like it?! then get fucking use to it!

    Fuck sake!
     
  2. snowraven

    snowraven Well-Known Member

    Nobody has the right to abuse you and it certainly shouldn't happen here. Good on you for putting your position clearly.
     
  3. Sa Palomera

    Sa Palomera Well-Known Member

    :hug: Viks, u know where I am if u wanna talk. just hit me up on google :smile:

    :arms:
     
  4. CAD

    CAD Well-Known Member

    Yeah, I know what you mean. I called someone "mate" in the chatroom and they went apeshit at me. I shall never call another human being "mate" again. :sad:
     
  5. nagisa

    nagisa Chat & Forum Buddy Staff Alumni

    Take care, hun. I agree with you. :hug:
     
  6. Rockster

    Rockster Guest

    hope your ok vikki, your right in everything you said though
     
  7. ~PinkElephants~

    ~PinkElephants~ Senior member

    mah skivvy wife :hug:

    YOu know where I'm at honey if you need to talk. Don't let people break you down adn you know what. Damn right you should stand up for yourself! :hug:
     
  8. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    Hi Vikki. I agree that you shouldn't take shit from no one, but aren't moderators supposed to be kind and supportive to everyone? :unsure:
     
  9. Marshmallow

    Marshmallow Staff Alumni

    Dave, theres a difference between being kind and supportive, which i do everyday to the people on this forum and sitting back and taking a load of crap off people and being expected to sit back and take it simple because your a mod. I didn't become a mod have to take that kinda shit off people, i've got enough crap going on in my life and i don't need it on support forum.

    I'm sick of people thinking that because they have nothing better to do with their lives that they can sit their and shout abuse at other people, especially staff because we're expected to simple take it. It's not fair and im sick and tired of some of the crap that is thrown at us.

    Sorry but it just pisses me off by the way some people are treating others. It's so uncalled for.

    In response to the others ...

    Snowraven - Thank you hun. :hug:

    Est - Thank you hun, your ace and i love you to bits. Can't wait for you to get your arse over here in the summer :tongue:

    CAD - Don't get too down about it, its seriously not worth it mate :tongue: :hug:

    My Melody - Thanks hunni :hug:

    Marc - Thank you so much :hug:

    Kells - Your ace! Thank you for everything
     
    Last edited by a moderator: Nov 21, 2008
  10. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    :unsure:
    i hav no problem with you viks
    :hug: people are dicks
     
  11. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Hi vikki, I hope you weren't annoyed because of the message I sent you last night. :hug:
     
  12. Marshmallow

    Marshmallow Staff Alumni

    not at all hun! you haven't done anything wrong :hug:
     
  13. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Good :) was sweating there for a minute :laugh: Hope you feel better soon :hug:
     
  14. Rockster

    Rockster Guest

    heya vikki, i hope a (semi)good sleep has helped you out and that your not still annoyed
     
  15. Ignored

    Ignored Staff Alumni

    We're all the same here... that's the point of peer to peer support. No one is better or worse than anyone else just because they've been asked to do a wee job. We're all here for a reason, after all!
     
  16. Carcinogen

    Carcinogen Well-Known Member

    There does seem to be an odd penchant for mod-bashing on this forum of late...
     
  17. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    vikki you do not have to take anymore than any other member. I wish I had an answer for you about why some people feel they can bash and abuse mods just because they think we have to take it. The truth is we are all members. Mods have the same types of problems and issues as everyone else. Don't let others get to you. :hug:
     
  18. soliloquise

    soliloquise Well-Known Member

    i dont know you but well done for saying this !! nobody should take anyone for granted, mods have their own shit and should not be disrespected or traeted badly. this cannot be an easy forum to moderate

    sam x