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Pleaasseee help?

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Warrior2089, Mar 30, 2009.

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  1. Warrior2089

    Warrior2089 Active Member

    there's this girl that I'm friends with and I have a small crush on her, and I remember the last time I had this feeling was in 7th grade and the feeling caused the girl to get creeped out. I talk to this girl like a human but I fear that she's going to think I like her and she'll stop talking to me. I want to stay at least friends with her and I'm just sooooo scared that she'll stop talking to me. I haven't gotten remotely close to a cool girl in a long time and I'm just so scared I'll ruin it.

    Advice? Please?

    I feel like the chance of a relationship, sex, intimacy is right there and I'm just freaked out I might lose it. She's a really cool girl.
  2. Seabiscuit

    Seabiscuit Member

    You should be confident,and try to express your feelings in a indirect way,especially in a humorous way.And you must be honest.Good luck.
  3. Regenesis

    Regenesis Well-Known Member

    Have you tried to get her drunk?
  4. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    Try dropping some subtle hints and feel her out. See if she responds to them. Also physical contact can help let you know if she responds or not. Try touching her hand, Or maybe even a hug..Just be yourself..If she responds then take it from there...
  5. Crue-K

    Crue-K Well-Known Member

  6. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

  7. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Hi warrior,

    The best advice I could give you,is to just be yourself. If you think your feelings for her could possible ruin your relationship with her,then maybe its best to just stay friends, I wish you luck in whatever you choose to do :)
  8. soliloquise

    soliloquise Well-Known Member

    dont try getting her drunk... ffs... bad advice, no woman is truly consenting to anything when drunk. its abusive...

    joseph/ strangeer is right i think...
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