Apologies for the issue with a bizarre redirect on the site earlier today. There was a large server update and an error in an IP address had the traffic routing wrongly. No hacking or anything nefarious and nothing to worry about. Sorry for any stress/anxiety caused. Very best wishes - SF Admin
What's wrong hun? I don't know what's happened but you are most certainately liked here by a lot of people and we don't want you to go. Stick around and talk to us, if you don't want to use the PM system or stay in contact via the forum (and I really, really hope that you do!!), feel free to e-mail me or add me to messenger and I'd be happy to talk to you. Please take care, and remember you're welcomed here. :hug:
i hope after a few days maybe just maybe you might come back and have a look at this thread when maybe things are not sorted but a little more settled for you.ive just seen this [late i know sorry] adn have so been wanting to PM you but at the same time i feel in a dilema cos youve asked us not to.i really dont know what to do.But i am worried about you and love you very much!!!Please dont go.i like your daisies!!!!!
If you see this at all would you please just make contact with me??Please.i am thinking of you and send big kath hugs!!!!
Please Take care [i know you are very low at the moment - more hugs]
PS Oh sorry i didnt realise the person who started this thread account has been closed when i wrote this.Oops.Sorry
Or maybe not closed but thats what it said on the screen just now........im so confused.But anyway if you do see this Row and want to get in touch please do.i miss you already.But i do not know [nor is it any of my business unless anyone wants it to be] what has been going on so i do not knwo where you stand on this.Take care everyone.
Row, friends don't let friends just disappear without vigorous protest. PLEASE don't go - don't kill yourself, don't hurt yourself, don't leave here mad or otherwise. PLEASE!!! Lots of us here love you, especially me!:smile:
Please just start over fresh. I don't know what the mistake or misunderstanding was, but you can start over. I make so many mistakes every single day, but I just start over every time. I have to. I have people depending on me - not just for support, but depending on me to stay alive for them. Please don't go anywhere. I love you dear!:smile:
your right i came back to check my pms firstly yes this is what it is about i had 2 accts befor it became a rule... i feel violated by bunny and robin as jenny said it was not a problem. as it was not listed as a problem i was brave and strong as roewanne but i am vulnerable and wont come back as rowanne as i feel violated and vulnerable.
i would like to thank robin and bunny for this. i never hurt anyone. i have helped alot your loss.
i had prayed i would not be alone as it came time but i will be and i am ok with that now.
love you all my friends.
i hope the added space to your server helped.
i see youve added it to the rules but you know you are wrong.
yuve chased away someone in pain over a petty rule that makes no fucking sense.
and by the way i know people who have 2 accounts on here, im not going to make them say who they are but let me just point out
IF you were going to be all like this about it you should make it so every ip address only has one account BUT you know full wellt hat sometimes two different households can have the same ip for no reason so you cant.
Roe didnt pretend to be anyone else, she asked you to delete her posts and you wouldnt, which is FINE cos thats in the rules that you wont do that, so she found her own solution which wasnt against your precious rules, and Jenny said it was fine.
Sohope your happy youve chased her away, i hope theres a life and death reason why no one dare have two accounts on here because if theyre aint its pretty sick to do this to someone for no reason
After the lot of you saying you wouldnt do somethign for me about someone in case it left them cut off qwithout any support now this time YOU have done it and for petty rules which are pointless, you havent explained them and youve just upset a fuck load of people.
Jenny didn't say it was fine to have 2 accounts, Rowanne misunderstood.
We've always had an unwritten rule about not having 2 accounts, it just opens us up to abuse and yes, if we suspect a person has 2 accounts we can check but we don't snoop on every member just in case, everyone is given the benefit of the doubt.
I'm sorry rowanne feels hurt by this but there's no reason to have two accounts, it just gets confusing at the best of time and hinders staff in tracking any problems that arise. It's hard enough to keep track of things as it is and anything that makes our job harder is not welcome.