My husband has had issues with cutting and self-harming for many years, longer than the 10 years we've been together. For awhile he seemed to be doing better but recently I made some poor choices and now he's relapsed into self-harming and suicidal thoughts. He's seen therapists/counselors in the past and they didn't seem to help and I've tried everything I can to show him my love and support but it doesn't seem to be enough. It doesn't help that he's on the road as a long-haul trucker and I'm stuck here at home away from him for weeks or months at a time which doesn't help in the slightest. I don't know if I can save my marriage, but I am desperately trying to see if there's anything I can do to help him as an individual.. Does anyone have any suggestions? Anything that helped them or someone they loved?