Please stop this

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by xXxRNBxXx, Apr 26, 2010.

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  1. xXxRNBxXx

    xXxRNBxXx Senior member

    Mark says:
    u know what?
    i hope ur mum and brothers know
    id love get them sorted id shot em all
    n blow my head off after it
    caue they spoilt my marriage
    <3 Rachel <3 says:
    your an evil bastard
    YOU spoilt the marriage by beating me up
    Mark says:
    ur horrible
    money minded mum
    <3 Rachel <3 says:
    how you can say that
    your sick
    seriously go get help


    Mark says:
    look i aint done nothin
    u split it up
    u dumped me on my ass when i had nothin
    i should off been dead now
    what u put me threw
    i hit u and beat you ..
    u sent me jail
    got me a restrainin order
    probation
    i did one big mistke nd i will pay bad for it
    <3 Rachel <3 says:
    one big mistake
    it went on for 3 years
    gradual
    how you can blame my family for our marriage failing
    you have got nothing but yourself to blame
    <3 Rachel <3 says:
    for beating me up


    I CANT FUCKING TAKE THIS!! HOW MUCH MORE COULD I POSSIBLY TAKE
     
  2. lightbeam

    lightbeam Antiquities Friend

    I would call the police and ask them to enforce the restraining order.
     
  3. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    I think not talking to him is the best No use trying to rationalize anything okay.
    stay safe okay
     
  4. xXxRNBxXx

    xXxRNBxXx Senior member

    Mark says:
    i know..
    if
    we moved away from everythin started again i finished my course took tablets w/e
    i would never harm u
    or allly
    but
    u just give up and us
    sayin ur scared of me
    i never in my life wanted u feel like that
    and i never realised i was so hard on ally
     
  5. lightbeam

    lightbeam Antiquities Friend

    Why are you still contacting him?? This in violation of your own restraining order! Both parties are required to maintain the restraining order, or both of you can go to jail.

    Think of it that way.
     
  6. xXxRNBxXx

    xXxRNBxXx Senior member

    i dont have a restraining order?

    Im not contacting him its him messaging me... :(
     
  7. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    Put him on ignore.
     
  8. lightbeam

    lightbeam Antiquities Friend

    Then stop messaging him and get a restraining order.
     
  9. jenniferelaine

    jenniferelaine Well-Known Member

    I kind of know where you are. I have been emotionally beaten down to the point of breaking by one "love". (Hell, it's why I'm here.) Three years of torture. He never laid a hand on me, but it might have been easier if he had. The guy before that raped me (and no, I didn't tell anyone). I'm really bad with guys.


    Put him on ignore RIGHT NOW. Block his phone number. All of your communication to him should be through lawyers. DOCUMENT the abuse, and get a restraining order. Because that is what he is doing. He may not still be hitting you physically, but he is emotionally battering you. Save the chat logs, take them to your lawyer.

    He is trying to blame you for his VERY BIG problems, and that is not right. He has brought you to this low, and that is NOT RIGHT. Don't give him the satisfaction of letting him win.
     
  10. Sa Palomera

    Sa Palomera Well-Known Member

    Honey, i know it's difficult, but please listen to me and everyone who's said it before: ignore him.

    Talking to him, explaining, obviously doesn't help, as he'll just keep going on and on. I reckon he'll stop sooner when you ignore him. He's trying to mess with your head and it is working this way. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing he's getting what he wants: you confused and in pain. he doesn't deserve the satisfaction honey.

    Please ignore him, block him. Get a new MSN/ Skype if necessary. You have to delete him from your life completely.
     
  11. xXxRNBxXx

    xXxRNBxXx Senior member

    Well today ive been embarrassed infront of all my work collegues :(

    He ordered a massive bunch of flowers to my work....

    When i rang up the flower company to explain hes harrassing me and to tell me who ordered them they confirm it was him, and he'd paid £70 for the flowers....

    I wanted to run away forever... He's even interfering with my work now :(

    everyone was like omg there sooo gorgeous he must love you so very much... I snapped at one girl by saying ooh and if you would have seen how beautiful he made my body and face when he smashed me apart and left me iin hospital for 6 month you wouldnt think the same.

    :(
     
  12. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    You know what to do with the flowers and call the police if it continues the harrassment okay throw them out no calling him or anything just talk to police now okay
     
  13. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    ditto.......
     
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