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Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Avarice, Mar 25, 2009.

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  1. Avarice

    Avarice Well-Known Member

    What's the quickest and least painful way of killing yourself? I need to get this over with now.
     
  2. Marshmallow

    Marshmallow Staff Alumni

    no one here will give you methods on how to end your life but we can offer you a place to get support have have people listen to you. I hope you get through this dark time.
     
  3. Beautiful Disaster

    Beautiful Disaster Forum Buddy SF Supporter

    talk to us hun :hug:
     
  4. Avarice

    Avarice Well-Known Member

    I don't need someone to listen to me, I just need to die. >.<
     
  5. Beautiful Disaster

    Beautiful Disaster Forum Buddy SF Supporter

    what happend?

    Something with your boyfriend?
     
  6. Avarice

    Avarice Well-Known Member

    Yeah, he cheated five times, tried again twice more when I thought he had changed, and keeps lying to me. >.< I am so sick of it. I rather just give up.
     
  7. Beautiful Disaster

    Beautiful Disaster Forum Buddy SF Supporter

    you should give up on him
    not on yourself

    he isnt worth any of your tears, let alone taking your own life.

    you have all right to be sick of it, of him. its a sucky bastard thing to do

    the lowest of the low, cheaters..

    you deserve better :hug:
     
  8. WARUMONO

    WARUMONO Member

    First of all, cheating once should be enough for you to end a relationship.
    Staying with him after 4 or 5 freaking times?
    Please tell me you're not that desperate.
    And there's no way you can defend him by saying he's a great guy because obviously he kind of sucks. A LOT.

    There's no reason for you to kill yourself over someone like that.
    Just move on.
    He's a douche.
     
  9. Shifter

    Shifter Well-Known Member

    no no no no no no. don't kill yourself over a guy. He only wins that way. Get him jealous of you, don't get sad, get even:wink: guys get mad and pain when they are confused, take advantage of that ;D
     
  10. Beautiful Disaster

    Beautiful Disaster Forum Buddy SF Supporter

    you are sad now
    and that will turn into anger, anger toward him, which he totally deserves

    i understand that you are hurt

    but dont let this, him, get the best of you..
     
  11. Avarice

    Avarice Well-Known Member

    I know he doesn't deserve the satisfaction of knowing what he reduces me to. But what point is there to life if we all just die anyway? Love isn't worth it from what I've experienced and I don't really have any friends to enjoy life with. Honestly, I think it's best all round, at least for me.
     
  12. Shifter

    Shifter Well-Known Member

    don't end it over the male gender.......just get a new one, i hear they are desprate nowadays
     
  13. Samm

    Samm Member

    Sweetheart, no guy is EVER worth taking you're life. Cause it's just that, YOU'RE life! Not his, so don't let him win. The first time he hurt you, you should have walked away and NEVER looked back. I know how it feels, I've been there.

    I know how hard it is, but no. You taking you're life will only let him win.
     
  14. SpencerA

    SpencerA Well-Known Member

    hon, i understand where you're coming from. i don't know how long you've been together for, but i was with a guy for 8 months who treated me appallingly, and i physically and emotionally fell apart, i found some old pictures earlier of the times when my friends dragged me out after the breakup, and i looked so ill it was unbelieveable, but i never knew at the time. and you probably won't recognise the damage hes done until hes out of your life completely, and you have a chance to move on and make things better for yourself. you're the important one here, not him, not anybody else, and you deserve better. it cripples your self-esteem when you're cheated on, and when you have no self-worth, you get to a point where you no longer want to go on in life, and i'm guessing you've got to this point. don't give up on yourself, give up on him, and believe it or not he'll look back and think, shit, i had the most loyal most beautiful girl in the world and i fucked it up, eventually when he grows up and stops being so foolish he will realise this, but please don't wait for that moment, because amazing things will pass you by if you do.

    start putting yourself first, if you can't end it because of the intensity of your feelings, start by gradually distancing yourself, even if its going out for a couple of hours a day if you live with him, or turning your phone off for a couple of hours if you dont, make time for yourself, to make the most of yourself and to take comfort in the fact you're not the awful person you seem to think you are right now.

    good luck beaut, let me know how it goes. x
     
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