I went to thailand a couple of years ago and had protected sex with a number of women except one Irish woman who i had unprotected sex with. i started to get rashes a couple of weeks afterwards but have felt fine otherwise for the last couple of years and have never been checked because i was scared. Recently my brother and mother have started to get rashes and swollen lymph nodes. i also have pyorria, where my gums bleed, and if there is any chance i have given them hiv i will not be able to go on. pls help