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Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by hippyman, May 7, 2010.

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  1. hippyman

    hippyman Member

    I know the title is probably gonna keep some of ya'll from reading this, but I feel like I need to post this, for no other reason than I dont feel normal. Today, for the first time ever, I watched genuine "regular" porn. I had looked at the sort of softcore stuff up until now, but now, for some reason, I feel better just for doing it. I feel more human for some reason. Is this normal? Should I be feeling this way? I mean, I'm 26 years old, and I've never seen "genuine" porn, until tonight, idk why, but that made me feel like a freak, for some reason. Should I have been feeling this way?
     
  2. Things

    Things Well-Known Member

    The vast majority of people watch porn. I guess the "more human" feeling comes from this. I hope I'm making sense.

    There's nothing to be worried about anyway.
     
  3. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    Normal yes, but when your hard drive is 95% filled with porns then you are in Boo's territory. :blink:
     
  4. KittyGirl

    KittyGirl Well-Known Member

    oh my.

    I feel like porn is probably way too accessible these days... the first time I saw genuine porn, I was 12... and I'm a girl- so I feel like *that* is abnormal.

    I think that if you had a sense of shame after watching it for the first time; that is perfectly normal. The same thing goes for feeling dirty after having sex for the first time. It's just the natural mental response you feel after doing something that is widely seen as 'dirty' or not right.
     
  5. ballinluig

    ballinluig Well-Known Member

    well, i dont really know what to say, perhaps im missing something. Im just niave( hope i spelt that correct),:eek:hmy:

    but Im 43 and never ever seen a porn movie in my life!!! There must be others who havent been fortunate ( or not) to of seen a porno????

    Must get myself one to watch and see what Im missing. Not for any other reason, Im not a prude, but juts never seen one. Is it cuz satisfied with my hubby> Or cuz hubby never been intrested????

    Any clue?????? any good websites?????
    donnax:Leiaha:
     
  6. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    well, im a girl and i must say i have watched porn before, both on my own and with my boyfriend...its fun and for more details pm me haha i dont wanna offend anyone

    a safe site to use is ampland.com it has video and pics and they links are checked daily for viruses and what not


    hope it helped
     
  7. ballinluig

    ballinluig Well-Known Member

    cheers coly, hubbys 50th birthday tom: might treat him!!!!

    donnaxx:cool:
     
  8. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    hope it goes well ;)
     
  9. 2-D

    2-D Well-Known Member

    there is no real right or wrong way to feel about watching porn (unless its 100% illegal no matter where u are)

    i dont really feel any particular way, only way i get relief if im honest
     
  10. The_8th_Wonder

    The_8th_Wonder senior Member

    Everybody has urges, it's human nature. Unfortunately for me I've never had a girlfriend and I won't anytime soon so there's no way for me to release or even calm the urges. However, the first time I watched porn I was in 6th grade which is too young in my opinion. This wasn't because of the urges though it was because of curiosity and most kids these days are exposed to porn way too young.
     
  11. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    i agree, they are being shown it too early i only saw it for the first time with the boyfriend actually, just because i was curious, but im also 20, so i mean take it how you want
     
  12. MRGSO

    MRGSO Active Member

    im a girl. and I have to say...boobs are nice. xP
    your body's natural response is to enjoy sex. that's how people reproduce.
    watching porn is perfectly normal. and not watching it is fine too....
     
  13. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member


    i wish i never watched that first porn movie.
     
  14. cloud9

    cloud9 Well-Known Member

    Heh, when I watched my first porn vid I think I was just a curious kid. I think I did it in Grade 6 or 7. It was never anything I discussed with anyone actually. I wish I didn't watch it, but to be honest I feel like it was just inevitable. Porn is so easily accessible these days its unbelievable. I was just a horny kid I guess lol. Anyways breaking the habit was very difficult. I've only just managed to stay away from it for 10 months. I'm pretty sure that's the longest I've ever stayed away since I started. I guess its not abnormal. I mean at the end of the day I guess we all have that same desire to reproduce? Although I'm not sure if its really a desire to reproduce or just have sex with reproduction being the consequence lol. Don't feel ashamed although I know I did after each time I viewed porn. If you know you can control yourself and choose not to watch it, then all the power to you. If its something that becomes sort of addicting which I feel it was to me, maybe you should consider limiting or not watching it.

    My two cents.

    Cheers :)
     
  15. gakky1

    gakky1 Well-Known Member

    Nothing at all wrong with watching it, we all have our choices, some really like it, I'm fine with that. Seen a few real hardcore ones many, many years ago, perhaps I'm too conservative but it sort of turned me off,:unsure: haven't watched anything like that since. Am single but it still doesn't interest me, but like I said nothing wrong with watching it, we're all different.:tongue:
     
  16. ballinluig

    ballinluig Well-Known Member

    well i had a look at the site suggested, umm not sure what to say really.:huh:

    some of it was just run of the mill sex, no different there, and yep no different to what i do with hubby. but some of the bits on the site was actually a turn on for me. The vids were short and perhaps that was good as i cant see that u cud watch a full film,:wink: .......would either have to get hubby or have a fun time myself!

    Surely its a personal preferance to watch these films? And like some other members n sf have said as long as the films are legit, and not illigal.

    If u dont have a bf/gf then perhaps its the only way to get releif in ur sexual urges. After all the body is a beautiful thing and shouldnt be counted as a smutty subject to talk or think about. And its a natural thing to explore ur body?
    Anyway after seeing my 1st porn site I dont really think Im missing much and fairly sure hubby wouldnt want to watch one.

    Thanks anyway.
    donnax
     
  17. PokerDonkey

    PokerDonkey Active Member

    This...

    23 year old virgin here who never had a gf, if I don't want my 2 hours of porn a day I might go insane. So pathetic.
     
  18. FBD

    FBD Well-Known Member

    nah its not paethic, and yeah, i know its short videos and all i still wanna watch a full movie myself, but i also am unsure of what sites to go to other than that one, i dont trust a lot of sites, especially porn sites, just because im paranoid about getting a virus on my comp.
     
  19. Crue-K

    Crue-K Well-Known Member

    The last time I saw porn was when I was 17 (i'm 34 now). I don't really see the point of it anymore, afterall you only watch maybe 15 minutes of it anyway. Is there anything more sad than wanking off to porn on your own?
     
  20. cloud9

    cloud9 Well-Known Member

    That's how I felt about it. Always felt bad afterward. I'm glad I've stopped.
     
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