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MisterBGone

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#21
Does anyone knows how to make friends at work? I mean I can make friends in my own department and house team but like I wants to try make friends in another department cause I has to go there and I see him a lot. And it went...

“Heyyy wants your name?”
“My name is.... “ (remains anonymouse)

But them kitty walks away cause kitty dont know what to chit chat but wants to chit chat🥺
Just by being your self, is your best bet. If you can be nice, friendly, and eventually on down the line when you get to know them just a little bit, "funny!" : ) which I have no doubt you'll have little to zero trouble in doing (so) - being funny that is, it is just in your very nature. But big thing from the start, may be to try not to worry about it so much. And give it (the feeling of fear or anxiety/worry, etc. over meeting someone new & "getting to know them") that much, or so much--too much "power," or emphasis as that can drain you and make it a million times worse, or just harder if you have a tendency to overthink, and overanalyze the situation. So, best advice, just relax & breathe. Speak casually, say the first thing that pops into your head (without wondering if it sounds good enough for them). Try not to pass to much judgement on yourself. As that can be counterproductive. The more you do this, interact with and talk to them, the easier it will get. It's like "practice," in the sense that... with repetition, confidence in your own self will improve and grow. And one day, maybe eventually you'll even be looking back at this conversation & wonder why we were having it in the first place? That's the hope, anyway!
 
#25
Just by being your self, is your best bet. If you can be nice, friendly, and eventually on down the line when you get to know them just a little bit, "funny!" : ) which I have no doubt you'll have little to zero trouble in doing (so) - being funny that is, it is just in your very nature. But big thing from the start, may be to try not to worry about it so much. And give it (the feeling of fear or anxiety/worry, etc. over meeting someone new & "getting to know them") that much, or so much--too much "power," or emphasis as that can drain you and make it a million times worse, or just harder if you have a tendency to overthink, and overanalyze the situation. So, best advice, just relax & breathe. Speak casually, say the first thing that pops into your head (without wondering if it sounds good enough for them). Try not to pass to much judgement on yourself. As that can be counterproductive. The more you do this, interact with and talk to them, the easier it will get. It's like "practice," in the sense that... with repetition, confidence in your own self will improve and grow. And one day, maybe eventually you'll even be looking back at this conversation & wonder why we were having it in the first place? That's the hope, anyway!
or another words.. small talk my friend, small talk.😹
 

Witty⭐️Sarcasm🐒

Race towards an early grave
SF Supporter
#32
Why do guinea pigs often look like they've seen some sh!t? (I don't know if anybody knows what I'm talking about or has noticed this, just seems like in a lot of videos of guinea pigs, one of them will have a really distant and kinda dopey look in their eyes.)
Maybe they're high. haha
I'm not sure but I do know what you ean.
 

Baywasp

I know the world turns and it will turn on me
SF Supporter
#39
Why do my eyes feel cold when I eat certain foods sometimes? Sometimes when I eat tuna salad or other stuff. Like this really rich pizza with 10 different cheeses on it I’m having right now. It’s hard to describe the feeling but I’ve been experiencing it every once in a while for over a decade and have never been able to find a good explanation.
 

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