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seabird

seabird

meandering home
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Inastorm said:
I was brought up to nod at people i was passing, people dont seem to do that here, makes them seem unfriendly.
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In my humble opinion, I know what you're saying as it happens here too. I just keep doing it anyway, or a small wave or g'morning. Some people have their troubles, their arrogance or self-absorbed attitudes in front of their hearts. It's their loss. You'll find people who will respond. It ends up in patterns sort of like traffic, in that some clumps will be better and easier, some not so good.

(h)
 
seabird

seabird

meandering home
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I would like to go to the art museum, a specialty bakery, a public garden and a few other places in a certain city, but with the situation that's happening or might happen soon, I'm too nervous to go over there. It makes me think maybe I shouldn't have come back.
 
Neko~boy

Neko~boy

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Mom took my sister and I out last Friday for a shopping day. My sister went to get her first id and then I had to go check on my furbabies and get them settled with more food and water. We were out from 720am until around 430 or 5pm. My back was killing me. I couldn't keep up with either of them in the stores. It felt like I had been stabbed by a pitchfork in the back and it was just twisting my muscles onto it like spaghetti. It was affecting my posture and making me hunch over a lot. The tighter my upper back got, the harder it became to breathe. My lower back felt like it was on fire and I would be out of breath. Since then I have been in a lot of severe pain. I wake up and need to use the restroom but I can barely get up to go.

The pain is becoming to be too much and I dont know how much I can tolerate of it. On top of that I have some health concerns popping up unrelated to my back and it makes me worry a lot. I see my doctor on the 31st so I have a lot to discuss with her. I am so exhausted and in so much pain.
 
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Congratsbaby

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Neko~boy said:
Mom took my sister and I out last Friday for a shopping day. My sister went to get her first id and then I had to go check on my furbabies and get them settled with more food and water. We were out from 720am until around 430 or 5pm. My back was killing me. I couldn't keep up with either of them in the stores. It felt like I had been stabbed by a pitchfork in the back and it was just twisting my muscles onto it like spaghetti. It was affecting my posture and making me hunch over a lot. The tighter my upper back got, the harder it became to breathe. My lower back felt like it was on fire and I would be out of breath. Since then I have been in a lot of severe pain. I wake up and need to use the restroom but I can barely get up to go.

The pain is becoming to be too much and I dont know how much I can tolerate of it. On top of that I have some health concerns popping up unrelated to my back and it makes me worry a lot. I see my doctor on the 31st so I have a lot to discuss with her. I am so exhausted and in so much pain.
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This sounds bad. Pain is always bad.
I hope it gets better , wishing it for you
 
Neko~boy

Neko~boy

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We're at the zoo for my sisters school outing. Getting from the car to the check in to the ticket booth i am in absolute agony. I can feel my pulse increasing, my lower back is killing me, I am loosing sensation in my thighs and they feel cold and tingly. My sister immediately made a face and grunt of annoyance when I sat down on a bench as soon as we made it to one. She is just going to be annoyed and disappointed with me just bc I am struggling with walking and mom will have back issues too.

I feel so pathetic and useless and just pain. I considered seeing if we could rent a wheelchair but my sister would only be annoyed by it and embarrassed. 😔
 
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Congratsbaby

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Neko~boy said:
We're at the zoo for my sisters school outing. Getting from the car to the check in to the ticket booth i am in absolute agony. I can feel my pulse increasing, my lower back is killing me, I am loosing sensation in my thighs and they feel cold and tingly. My sister immediately made a face and grunt of annoyance when I sat down on a bench as soon as we made it to one. She is just going to be annoyed and disappointed with me just bc I am struggling with walking and mom will have back issues too.

I feel so pathetic and useless and just pain. I considered seeing if we could rent a wheelchair but my sister would only be annoyed by it and embarrassed. 😔
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How old is she ? Maybe telling about your health problems to her honestly will create understanding between you all
 
Neko~boy

Neko~boy

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Congratsbaby said:
How old is she ? Maybe telling about your health problems to her honestly will create understanding between you all
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She is 14 and I am always up front with her about my pain and discomfort and when I am struggling. She just doesn't care and only shows annoyance and irritation. For the last few years my pain has been getting worse. I examined to her multiple times I have struggled with chronic pain since highschool but was never given a diagnosis by any one I saw.

My current doctor believes I have an autoimmune disease but hasn't been able to determine what it is exactly. I have arthritis in multiple parts of my body which is getting worse. I have worsening health conditions including my breathing and heart murmur since I had covid a couple of years ago. She is fully aware of all of these things but she complains.

I told my mom yesterday that we should just let her go off with her school group so she can enjoy it and mom agreed finally. So mom and I just slowly hobbled around and saw a few things and made it from bench to bench. I was a bit upset because the zoo barely had any benches anywhere and I was considering sitting on the ground off to the side because I was hurting so much
 
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Congratsbaby

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Neko~boy said:
She is 14 and I am always up front with her about my pain and discomfort and when I am struggling. She just doesn't care and only shows annoyance and irritation. For the last few years my pain has been getting worse. I examined to her multiple times I have struggled with chronic pain since highschool but was never given a diagnosis by any one I saw.

My current doctor believes I have an autoimmune disease but hasn't been able to determine what it is exactly. I have arthritis in multiple parts of my body which is getting worse. I have worsening health conditions including my breathing and heart murmur since I had covid a couple of years ago. She is fully aware of all of these things but she complains.

I told my mom yesterday that we should just let her go off with her school group so she can enjoy it and mom agreed finally. So mom and I just slowly hobbled around and saw a few things and made it from bench to bench. I was a bit upset because the zoo barely had any benches anywhere and I was considering sitting on the ground off to the side because I was hurting so much
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I see.. I am sorry. Maybe try approaching her in a way where you're reassuring her that you're not putting your burden on her but letting her know about this so she knows that you try your best but have some health conditions which hinders you to be completely be there for her and for yourself.
If you wanna share more , do you think there's a particular reason she is annoyed or upset with you?
 
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