I haven't relapsed yet.... but I fear I will soon. I haven't cut myself for nearly four months now. However, I have lots of shit that's all kinda hitting the ceiling all at once. An ex has kinda gone off the deep end and is sending me threatening messages via facebook, spreading rumors and talking bad about me (ironically, she's saying that I'm trash talking her when I haven't thought about her in months). I also may have lost my only source of income which means I'm going to run out of food soon; I'm already out of medication but if I can't get some money, I can't refill the prescriptions. And my phone could get turned off pretty quick which would make it tough to find work. I don't want to cut, but I know all this stress is starting to pile up. I know if I did cut, it would freak out my girlfriend (who isn't exactly the type who would know what to do) and the rest of my friends. If you see relapse coming, how can you stave it off? I don't want to start cutting again; I'm really proud that I've gone 4 months without it and I want to keep it up!