Q : Suicidal feelings & your sense of belonging

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Aleth, Jul 9, 2008.

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  1. Aleth

    Aleth Well-Known Member

    This is just a general question to anyone feeling suicidal.

    Do you have a strong sense of belonging? -- feeling like you have a place in society, "fit in," etc.?

    Personally, if I had to name the one thing at the centre of my suicidal feelings, it would be a lack of a sense of belonging. Other problems seem to be either a consequence or a cause of that.

    I don't really feel much like talking about myself at the moment. But I was wondering if this sort of feeling is fairly common.
  2. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    Ever since I could think for myself and understand my feelings I have never felt like I belong.

    Here or there.... anywhere.
    It's not my time in this world.

    To be honest I hate people and I will never want to be a part of this society.
    It is possible that I have fed my own anguish..... but I don't feel that way.
    This new world is sick and I don't want to be a part of it.
  3. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Although I don't feel suicidal at all, I have pondered about this sort of question before.

    I am in different about fitting into society. As long as I belong in this universe then that's all that matters to me.
  4. Summer.Rain

    Summer.Rain Well-Known Member

    Yes i totaly agree with you and feal the same thing
    Yet i dont think that it is the world we should blame, i think its the humans
    we shoul blame, the nature and our planet is a beautifull place
    yet humans are like cancer, destroying this planet, just like virus thay multiply
    and destroying everything!
  5. klodo

    klodo Well-Known Member

    No I don't get on with my family and have never had a relationship so I have never felt I belonged to anything. I think most 40+ year old virgins would consider suicide many times in this society especially if they had other mental problems.I guess many suicides are people who never had a happy family life.
  6. Aleth

    Aleth Well-Known Member

    Where does all that hatred for people come from?

    I can't say I hate anyone myself. Some people I like, some I dislike, most I have no opinion about whatsoever either way.

    I think when I am at my most vulnerable I can see the best and worst of people. Some are very kind and supportive, others will try to bully or take advantage of you because they view you as a soft target.
  7. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni

    That's why I'm so glad this place exists.
  8. technoxteacups

    technoxteacups New Member

    It's gotten so bad for me that people seriously think I go home after school and kill people for the hell of it.
  9. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I don't think I will ever belong anywhere. Im not even sure if I fit in here:mellow:
  10. Clockwork Reality

    Clockwork Reality Well-Known Member

    I've moved seventeen times in my life and lived in four different countries. Can't say that I've found a place where I say, "yes! This is it! This is where I belong!" People are assholes all over the world.
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