Oh, as far as the attempt part goes, - I try not to get lost in language like this personally. I feel like this is how debates like "Abortion = Murder?" start and never really seem to end...
There's a couple thousand more nuances and factors to include before even considering to present an argument in that situation, I'd think.
""I did action A or B - therefore it was an attempt - and the word attempt is perceived as something inherently negative and harmful by other people, by society, legally etc."
In a vacuum, so to speak - There's many prerequisites and conditions before it can be seen as an actual attempt - But the value, interpretation and meaning of the word attempt is more like... "Well it depends, and here's why (....)"