I have got to know a member on this site very well indeed. They are very confused right now and want to be alone. I am not sure its healthy for them but am repeatedly told that its for the best. The member has been doing quite well but kinda had a setback. The member says that they have forgiven themselves and others but is still angry at times and scared of the past. The member keeps on crying and trying to get to grips with things, saying that by isolating and keeping it in, the only voice they hear is their own, so its the voice they should listen to first. What should i tell them?