Sent my sister a text asking her if she'd want to know if I had a terminal disease. (We have an aunt who has terminal cancer). Also asked her if she'd want a heads up when I got tired of everything. She forwarded it to my parents who are elderly and don't need the stress. So now my relationship with them is damaged and if I outlive them I don't have a sister I can depend on. I can't even imagine the thinking that goes on in her head. She's alienated me for the last time. I won't reach out again.