Real Friend

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by AnxiousBoy, Jul 28, 2008.


Do you have a real friend

  1. Yes

    21 vote(s)
  2. No

    33 vote(s)
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  1. AnxiousBoy

    AnxiousBoy Member

    Maybe there was a poll like this. sorry if i miss. butt..
    Do you have a real friend? Person who you can tell all your problems to? Like something you would write on this forum.

    my answer: no
    if i ever even did that people would say i'm a basket case and stepped away. It's so easy to lie!
  2. wastedmylife

    wastedmylife Well-Known Member

    my dog was my friend but I fucked his life up and was responsible for him getting his leg amputated so yea now I have no friends
  3. DrowningInTears

    DrowningInTears Well-Known Member

    I think ur dog still loves you. And I think you love ur dog so much that u want to take responsibilty for something that isnt your fault because you cant bear to see him like that.
  4. Spikey

    Spikey Senior Member

    I have a quite a few "friends" but only a few close friends. The people I count as true friends are the ones who I know would welcome me with open arms should I ever need anything :yes: met a few of them on here :yes:

    :hug: Mel :hug: xx
  5. perry_mason

    perry_mason Well-Known Member

    no :-(
    but if i did have someone who i was real close to, i wouldnt want to tell them my problems for fear of scaring them away.
  6. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    I do have friends That I could share with both online and in real life, but those in real life I would not want to burden them with my issues. They deserve so much more than that. Those online do too, but since many of them i met through SF, I know they are much more open and understanding to what I may tell them.
  7. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    I have a boyfriend.... We are really close and I love to give him shit. :laugh:
  8. Bigman2232

    Bigman2232 Well-Known Member

    Used to, but not anymore. Over the last few years my pool of friends was getting smaller and smaller (wasn't very big in the first place). Finally 3 months ago I lost probably my closest friend (she was the only one I ever told even some of my fucked up thoughts to) and then a month and a 1/2 ago I lost my last friend who I could at least hang out with and try (usually unsuccessfully) to forget about my shitty life.
  9. pinkpetals33

    pinkpetals33 Well-Known Member

    I don't like to develop close relationships with people....

    I have alot of "friends" and "friends" that have known me a long time but.......

    In fact, no one has ever known the real me. Even my family admit they don't know. Close freinds know that there is an imaginary line they never cross with me to not get too close....
  10. i'm lucky and i know it, i have one real friend... can't be sure if he'll ever read this, but if he does, he knows who he is.
  11. no, none. there is no one. any time i come close to allowing myself to consider someone a friend, something makes me hate them. i never let them know this, i act as though we're still "friends". but i cannot open up to anyone, i do not trust anyone. i do not like anyone. i don't even like my self; i am not my own friend. i can, however, be hones with myself
  12. Sa Palomera

    Sa Palomera Well-Known Member

    There are very few people from here whom I consider real friends, but I assume you're talking about real life friends, in which case I'll have to say no.
    I had 2 real friends. But things have changed over the past months, and now there's only my cat IRL.
    Sure I have friends I can hang with and all and serious talks every now and then, but not the real stuff that bugs me :dunno:
  13. resistance

    resistance Staff Alumni

    I have very few real friends but those I do have I love tons. Quality over quantity anytime.
  14. Light_In_The_Dark

    Light_In_The_Dark Well-Known Member

    My only real friend that respects me and understands me is my guitar
  15. Tnecniv

    Tnecniv Well-Known Member

    my answer is both yes and no.....
  16. plates

    plates Well-Known Member

    do you mean real friend as in a real life friend or real friend as a friend who you'd consider a real friend.

    if you mean real friends whom i love dearly, yes i do, i have 2, one online and offline. i'm very fortunate. about telling problems and getting comfort though, that's another thing..but i suppose all i want is someone to listen sometimes. one of them is more than a friend though. much more than that...
  17. Lady Byron

    Lady Byron Well-Known Member

    i have one. she's the only one who never puts me down like everyone else. i love her to death but sometimes she pisses me off. online i have 2 1/2. the 1/2 stands for someone who is hardly ever on when i'm on and i miss talking to him a lot :blub: but i've met a couple new ones :smile:.
  18. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I have a couple real friends. But even they don't entirely understand me. It hurts. On this forum, people are more understanding. But still, I guess it's impossible for another person to ever truley get you. I've ended up with a teddy bear for a best friend :laugh:
  19. Shock

    Shock Well-Known Member

    i have heaps of friends and im really greatful for that but theres no one i consider im close to
  20. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    my pet is my only friend.
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