I've been having a few realizations lately and I guess I'll start this thread to get them out in the air and I'll update it as I make new ones (I hope). Ok, the first one is that girls seem to only get physical or affectionate with me when they are drunk, emotional or both. And by physical I mean, just actually touching me. What brought me to this realization is a week ago a female friend received some upsetting emails and proceeded to get drunk. She invited a few people over to have some drinks with her. I go over and rather quickly she starts sitting on my lap and giving me hugs, wanting to dance and even gave me a kiss on the cheek, twice. Now she has a new bf and I'm not going to take advantage of a drunk/emotional even if she didn't have a bf, so nothing happened, but it brought up the fact that, although they don't cringe at me being around, girls only seem to initiate physical contact if they are under the influence. It was the same with another female friend when just the two of us went out to the bars and got drunk. She started hugging me, dancing with me and just making contact with me all night. It's not like I'm complaining about the contact. Far from it. I feel so pathetic but to a guy who has never even been on a date, a kiss on the cheek from an attractive girl is a lotto win in life. I just hate that it takes being hammered for them to see me as a guy worth flirting with.