apparently you can never recover from mental illness.
What a load of bollocks. It's perfectly possible to recover from mental illness. Not for everyone, but for some.
It's funny, I'm in a breast cancer support group and I've noticed that some people love to be defined by their diagnosis. Of course for many women it
is a lifelong illness for however long they have but even women who have finished treatment and now have no evidence of disease cling onto their diagnosis like a badge of honour (god help me, I will probably be shot down in flames for saying that). Oncologists will no longer use the term "cured" as there is always the possibility of it returning even after 20 years. But in my head, six years down the line, I like to think of myself as cured. Sure, it
might come back one day, and if it does I'll deal with it, but I'm not going to live my life thinking of myself as a cancer patient.
I think it's the same with mental illness but even more so. I doubt there's many people who never have a brush with it. It just depends on the type and the severity. Situational depression can be truly awful but if the situation can be resolved or at least made better there's a good chance of recovery. Bipolar on the other hand will probably always need to be carefully monitored but that's not to say you can't spend years feeling fine. A person might be diagnosed with a personality disorder but in the future would no longer fit the criteria for that. People change over time and so can their mental health.
I've spent so many years feeling suicidal before eventually hitting rock bottom. But now, on the right meds and after a lot of fantastic therapy I'm feeling stronger than I can ever remember feeling. Am I cured? I probably shouldn't say so as there's probably a decent chance it might come back at some point. But right now I'm good and
if it comes back I'll deal with it.
I like your term of remission, it seems to fit really well. Recovery to me is an ongoing thing - we'll probably be recovering for the rest of our lives as we naturally change and grow. I'm not sure recovery ever has an end point as we will continually learn about ourselves. But remission sounds right. Currently no evidence of disease.