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Reflections

SillyOldBear

Teddy Bears Rule! 🐻
Staff Alumni
#1
The mess this world is in has me reflecting on the past. I was born in 1952, so for many on SF it is a really distant past.
When I was a kid only one parent had to work. He/she brought in enough money with one job to raise a family. One parent was at home to watch and support the kids. And divorce and single parents were much less common. There were no school shootings, heck no mass shootings. We drove around in big 8 cylinder cars that just ate gas but gas was less than a buck a gallon. They didn't even have seat belts. We could play outside without fear of being kidnapped. We could ride our bicycles just about anywhere and didn't need to lock them up because no one would steal them. TV was free as long as you had an antenna on the roof. Yeah, we had to get up to change the channel, but so what. We could mail a letter for under a dime and they were usually delivered on time. Churches were full of people of all ages. Kids would go around the neighborhood Christmas caroling. Homelessness was practically unheard of. I remember one older blind man who would sit with his German Shepard outside a major department store and play his accordion to earn a few dollars. No one robbed him. A bus ride was 35 cents.
Sure there were bad things. The Vietnam war. John Kennedy, Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King were assassinated. The Korean 'police action' was going on. But, overall it was a much gentler time. Even the political parties tried to work with each other.
I wish there was a time machine and I could go back there. It was kind of like the town of Mayberry from the Andy Griffith Show.
 
#2
Even the political parties tried to work with each other
The thing I've heard said about that time was that there were a lot of WWII veterans in both parties, so it formed a basis for the parties to respect each other. Seeing the members of the other party as former brothers-in-arms made it easier to get along.

I wish there was a time machine and I could go back there
I'm sorry those times are gone now. I'm glad you have such beautiful memories though.

Sending hugs
 

Winslow

My Toughest Problem Has Been Solved.
SF Supporter
#4
The mess this world is in has me reflecting on the past. I was born in 1952, so for many on SF it is a really distant past.
When I was a kid only one parent had to work. He/she brought in enough money with one job to raise a family. One parent was at home to watch and support the kids. And divorce and single parents were much less common. There were no school shootings, heck no mass shootings. We drove around in big 8 cylinder cars that just ate gas but gas was less than a buck a gallon. They didn't even have seat belts. We could play outside without fear of being kidnapped. We could ride our bicycles just about anywhere and didn't need to lock them up because no one would steal them. TV was free as long as you had an antenna on the roof. Yeah, we had to get up to change the channel, but so what. We could mail a letter for under a dime and they were usually delivered on time. Churches were full of people of all ages. Kids would go around the neighborhood Christmas caroling. Homelessness was practically unheard of. I remember one older blind man who would sit with his German Shepard outside a major department store and play his accordion to earn a few dollars. No one robbed him. A bus ride was 35 cents.
Sure there were bad things. The Vietnam war. John Kennedy, Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King were assassinated. The Korean 'police action' was going on. But, overall it was a much gentler time. Even the political parties tried to work with each other.
I wish there was a time machine and I could go back there. It was kind of like the town of Mayberry from the Andy Griffith Show.
Ohh, I was born in 1952 as well. Actually, life is better for me now because I go to the Senior-Center to socialize. To me, it's an advantage compared to being young. Why? Well, because when people are young they form cliques and turn up their noses at other youngsters they deem "unsuitable." It's those cliques that isolate so many youngsters.That's why so many youngsters suffer loneliness.

But with my fellow seniors I find that Nobody is trying to win any popularity (superiority) contest so they treat everybody like family. No clique-ishness, so no isolation. At least this is my experience but I don't know about you other seniors.
 

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