I was used by a girl i truely loved. She didn't truely love me though. We dated for 6 months. Were planning to elope and go to university near each other. We were very serious or I thought, she just played along. We got to the point 4 months into the relationship that we'd have sex regularly. I found out later that she had had sex with 3 other guys multiple times. She also lied about where she was and what she was doing. She'd go smoke pot with her ex and consoul in him. she was always secretive about who she was with. I was never apart of her life. she was living a double standard life. She dumped me because I was never there for her. I was at her house every day for 6 months. I am still so devastated 5 months later. I have a hard time trusting girls. I was used and abused.