I currently don't 'date' because of my mental health problems. Relationships usually involve me going absolutely psycho, clingy, demanding, possessive, jealous etc etc etc. I am due to start therapy soon and I kind of wanna get that whole thing out of the way and hopefully become a more stable person before I start trying to have relationships again.
However, the problem is (and it's pretty silly that I'm calling this a problem!) I get asked out a lot! I want to be honest with people and explain that I don't do relationships but they always keep insisting and asking time and time again. Eventually I end up telling them a bit more than I'd like about my problems in order to try and actually stop them from asking me out.
Is there any way I can make people see that I am serious about not wanting to be in a relationship without making them feel like I'm just making up excuses or without telling them more than I want to?
Kaz x
However, the problem is (and it's pretty silly that I'm calling this a problem!) I get asked out a lot! I want to be honest with people and explain that I don't do relationships but they always keep insisting and asking time and time again. Eventually I end up telling them a bit more than I'd like about my problems in order to try and actually stop them from asking me out.
Is there any way I can make people see that I am serious about not wanting to be in a relationship without making them feel like I'm just making up excuses or without telling them more than I want to?
Kaz x