For abit over a year I have been talking to this girl. We both hope to meet some day. But my thing is this, she always seems so distant. I am not certain if there is just something she went through, and she wound up like this or its something I am or am not doing. But I have a habit of watching what I say. Last night I got to spend a couple hours with her, which is the longest in quite a while. but all I wish to know is how can I help someone who seems I want to say a bit closed, I am hoping she is not still being shy with how long I have known her. but any help/advice would be appreciated.