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Ideas & Opinions Relationship problems


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My guy and I have been together for 3+ years, recently he has found a new friend at work and is seeing her all the time, especially when I’m at work. I am terrified he is going to leave me for her, he said he’s confused, and honestly, my anxiety has gotten to the point I’ve been having thoughts of suicide and self harm, I haven’t attempted, but it’s getting scary. I see a therapist friday, but am I crazy for being worried? Am i THAT jealous girlfriend? Am i overreacting?
Hi. I'm sorry you're having a tough time at the moment. I agree with GMody on this one, I don't think you are overreacting or acting irrationally - especially if he said he was "confused". It's natural to feel upset when you are having relationship problems, and a lot of people come here due to relationship issues. Maybe talking this through with your boyfriend could help? It's great that you are actively seeking help. I hope you can feel better soon. Sending hugs *hug10.


Vanity of Vanities
I am not sure if you are overreacting because the part where he said to you "he’s confused" that is something that has to elaborated more on. It sounds like you both need to talk a little more to each other about how much attention and affection you are both giving each other

@DesD I am sorry you are going through this. You are a beautiful person and if those things come to light then I hope you will find someone that cares more about you.

My name is Ryan I hope this does not happen to you I lost my girlfriend to a woman because I was at my crippled dads house for a couple nights for a couple hours singing music with him while he played the harmonica, she thought I was neglecting her but she was not home much and I didnt know when she was home because her hours changed all the time working at casino and when she called I guess she did not like it when I said in a couple hours.

I always came home every time rubbed her back and feet every night cooked and cleaned. So many nights and mornings I woke up with no one there because she would make excuses why she didnt come home.

I loved her with all my heart did everything for her bought her cars never cheated or fought with each other for 12 years, she just basically said I am not attractived to men anymore and left me.

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