Hi all, I hope I can get some good advice. My anxiety is crazy and it's ripping me apart, along with my relationship that I'm trying to save. My two year relationship ended a week ago. It's the first time anyone has split up with me. I was shocked because I had no idea she'd stopped loving me. I understand now my faults, and if needed I'll go into them. I talked to her one night and she said she'd like to try again. But she'd like to start from scratch. She tells me she doesn't feel like she loves me yet, but she is willing to try. It kills me to hear that, but I guess I have hope. I'm really suffering with anxiety because of all of this. I'm a real mess. I have many questions I can't get answered, and I think talking about it is pushing her away again.. It's like I have to move past them... But I can't... But I need to. The real bad thing is she's now no longer with me in my country. She has to finish her courses and will be away for 4 months. I have to try to fix things online. Do you know of any books that would help? Maybe videos or websites. Should I just accept we're over? I need to change, but my anxiety is ruining things. Thanks.