So what's it like being in a relationship or in love? I'm 18 and never experienced either, or anything close. I don't think I'm terrible looking, just more of my personality, as I'm quiet around those I don't know. No one I met really wants to take the time to talk to you if you're quiet, and I never really bothered tried talking to them. Is it possible to even get into a relationship if you're naturally quiet/shy? Will it come natural someday or do I have to go and look for it? I just can't really imagine myself finding anyone.