I made the right decision today .... I turned down an offer to cheat on my husband---a VERY tempting offer, I might add. I know, I know -- why would I consider it in the first place?! Well, because that is part of my problem -- I seek out situations that simply cause me pain. I realized last night that the ONLY way I can not continue this cycle is to simply STOP continuing the damn cycle. So, I sent the man a clear email rejection and feel better....I think????