I don't really understand what he did to justify your response there. Of course you can do whatever you want but I feel disappointed at your closed mindedness. The suggestion that he would welcome with open arms the idea that "maybe you should go get help" - as if he's never, ever heard that before. Think about how many times you've heard the same unhelpful crap regarding your depression. Not to mention the fact that He has no more control over his attraction than someone who is homosexual does. He has only 2 choices for the rest of his life, either to forever try to fight himself, deny what he wants and be eternally unhappy or to be voluntarily chemically castrated.- Something which many people suffering from such an illness do. I'm sure he came here hoping that he might find some acceptance amongst other people who are similarly accused of all sorts of things when really they're just sick. So well done. ---- Now all feel free to berate, flame, ban me etc.