I've kinda gone back into 'protection' mode again, so can talk a bit clearer.
I havent seen this person since before christmas, I was "dating" him, i use "" cause i just dont want to say i was seeing him, becuase of affore mentioned things. I left when things were just too much, sexual things/acts he was trying to get me to do. he followed me through a shoping centre when i was doing my christmas shoping, and that, i figured today, freaked me out so much cause its what the guy in greece who raped me did the first day we were in athens. he followed me and my brother back form a toy shop to teh pub where my mum was, so it echoed that, then his rape fantasy, he kept trying to get me to leave a spare ste of clothes in his home, and he said one day cause my clothes wouldnt be fit for wearing home at some point..
and now these calls since i cut contact with him.
Hes also a mutual friend of a few friends.
And when i say hes a 'nice guy' he genuinely seems like he wouldnt hurt a fly, so i dont blmae people for being a bit taken back by me saying these things are happening, but it leaves me very open to attack form him. so you see my problem.
I'm changing my number tomorrow now becasue of this. I'm considering getting mace, even though its illegal here. i'm not being raped and abused again.