sad... so sad...

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by John Smith, Oct 17, 2016.

  1. John Smith

    John Smith Member

    It's 3 in the morning but I can't sleep. My wife and two kids are asleep.

    She has PTSD, anxiety disorder, dyslexia and depression. She's driving me nuts.
    She is passive aggressive all the time.

    This marriage is making me feel... sad... just so so sad...

    I can't sleep because of the sheer sadness.
  2. Brian777

    Brian777 Safety and Support Forum Pro SF Supporter

    Hey John, welcome to SF, I'm sorry you're awake and sad. Is your wife receiving any medical help or therapy for these conditions? They can really change a person and it sounds like you're having a difficult time dealing with it. Maybe even set up a therapy appointment for you both together would help.
  3. John Smith

    John Smith Member

    Hey Brian. She couldn't get any medicine because of her physical condition. Now, it is an option so we will start medication soon.
    But I'm just exhausted...

    She's passive aggressive so she does whatever she wants and then blames it on her conditions...
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  4. Brian777

    Brian777 Safety and Support Forum Pro SF Supporter

    I can imagine John, you're probably having to walk on eggs. Unfortunately these issues effect the whole family.
    Hopefully starting the medication will help her and in turn you and the rest of the family. I hope you're able to get some rest John.
  5. John Smith

    John Smith Member

    Thank you Brian.
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  6. moxman

    moxman I am proud to call Rosie, my best friend =) Forum Pro

    Hello John, I am Mox

    Are you able to see a mental health specialist, to get yourself some help?

    It's good that you realize this. Now the million dollar question, how do you stop it?

    How long have you been married?

    You mention two kids, is she the mother of both children? How old are the children?

    Can you get any help from friends/families?

    Wishing you the best

    Take Care