I saw my ex for the first time today. I helped him with all his essays when we applied to college. spent nine hours on it, and convinced him to apply to this school because he had no safety schools.
lo and behold, this is the only place he gets into and now the dining hall closest to me is also closest to him. my hands were literally shaking. I couldn't bring myself to eat breakfast. his friends were staring at me and giggling. I said hi, because I thought that would be the adult thing to do, but now I'm a wreck. remembering all the bad stuff that happened in our relationship.
I was terrified. this isn't normal. why does seeing him have to ruin my day? why does it make me remember all the times he made me feel stupid when we fought, and all the times he pushed me for sex, and all the times he told me I would always be selfish? is this trauma? or is this normal breakup stuff? i feel incredibly sick.
lo and behold, this is the only place he gets into and now the dining hall closest to me is also closest to him. my hands were literally shaking. I couldn't bring myself to eat breakfast. his friends were staring at me and giggling. I said hi, because I thought that would be the adult thing to do, but now I'm a wreck. remembering all the bad stuff that happened in our relationship.
I was terrified. this isn't normal. why does seeing him have to ruin my day? why does it make me remember all the times he made me feel stupid when we fought, and all the times he pushed me for sex, and all the times he told me I would always be selfish? is this trauma? or is this normal breakup stuff? i feel incredibly sick.