Me and my ex bf split up (my choice) a month or so ago. However, On my request we have not informed his family due to the abuse I would receive... and I want to be out of town when we do tell them eventually. However they are making me feel so disgusted. My ex's family are sickening. We are lucky that my ex's aunt keeps us in the loop about everything. His mother has invited themselves round for boxing day in which they expect me to make a full on roast dinner. and pay for taxi fare there and back considering they only live a 20 minute walk down the road. On top of that whilst she was out spending money an elderly friend of hers lent her to get bits in she purchased 2 new phones for herself and her husband, and spent money on her other granddaughter and grandson. when asked (by my ex's sister) what she was getting esme (my daughter) for christmas, she said plainly have to wait and see, not getting her anything until I know what they are getting me. I am fuming, and ever since she was born she has been treated differently to her cousin and forgotten ignored. We stayed at my ex's aunts this weekend, in which his mother and father came round... neither of them said hello to me, and spent the whole time talking flemish to my ex, and they were apparently around to see esme... yet they said hello to her and ignored her the whole 4 hours they were there. I am sick and tired of her being treated like some fucking bargaining chip. Why are some people so fucking disgraceful?