I know i'm not a bad person but it's driving me insane how people ask for help and they take the advice i give them and use it for horrible reasons.. A few months ago i dumped the girl i loved, she cheated on me and yet i hoped she would change. I gave her the opportunities because i cared.. Sadly as soon as i gave up on her she has sex with my best friend/neighbor. Ever since now my neighbor is acting like he's hot crap. My advice seems to cause more pain to myself than helping others..I've been trying to dig myself out of this hole for 4 years.. and it just seems to get harder each and every day.. it seems like there's no more common sense in this world, god i wish there was someone out there that would stop and think about what they're doing so people like me don't get stuck with the suffering..