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What is it with the hundreds of threads from the same people. "Please don't kill yourself, if you do I will too", "I'm killing myself tonight", "I'm leaving the forum". There are thousands of people on this forum and not everyone wants to know the ins and outs of every conversation that goes on between 4 individuals.
If you post every single day saying you're going to kill yourself RIGHT NOW, eventually people won't believe you anymore. I do not want for anyone to kill themselves, but I think people need to be aware of how their behavior is affecting many members.
If you need attention (and there is nothing wrong with that) be honest and say so. Don't make out you're going to die tonight unless a few people on the forum "save" you. Actually, only you can save you from yourself. So why not be honest with what you need, and get some help for your issues.
The forum is being flooded by posts that should be kept to PMs, from people trying to outdo eachother's problems. One starts drinking or cutting or burning and within days, the other starts doing the same. Can anyone else see how unhealthy this is for all involved? And for the forum as a whole too. I know of several members who are staying away from the forum because of this, myself included. This is not a guilt trip thread for those involved, it's a plea for you to stop and think.
If you post every single day saying you're going to kill yourself RIGHT NOW, eventually people won't believe you anymore. I do not want for anyone to kill themselves, but I think people need to be aware of how their behavior is affecting many members.
If you need attention (and there is nothing wrong with that) be honest and say so. Don't make out you're going to die tonight unless a few people on the forum "save" you. Actually, only you can save you from yourself. So why not be honest with what you need, and get some help for your issues.
The forum is being flooded by posts that should be kept to PMs, from people trying to outdo eachother's problems. One starts drinking or cutting or burning and within days, the other starts doing the same. Can anyone else see how unhealthy this is for all involved? And for the forum as a whole too. I know of several members who are staying away from the forum because of this, myself included. This is not a guilt trip thread for those involved, it's a plea for you to stop and think.