Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by asking_advice, Dec 14, 2011.
do you use masturbation or sex to forget your sadness?
Sometimes, yes. Masturbation is just another distraction, one that feels good at the time but it tends to make me feel bad afterwards, knowing I do it because I am single.
Not really, although being with someone helps a little as it takes my mind off things.
Nope, last time I tried masturbating to forget my sadness I ended up crying and it brought out my emotions rather than concealed them.
Masturbating, since I can't seem to find out what is wrong with me that girls don't like. I guess that way I can have the "perfect" scenarios play out in my head, and the sensation makes it somewhat real. the Key word in that statement, of course, is somewhat.
sometimes I feel sad after I masturbate since I wish I had a partner, but it's uncommon. I cant' have sex to cure sadness unless I'm sad because of not having sex. And casual sex is just out of the question
Sometimes it makes me feel relieved, since I don't have to think about serious things. Sometimes it makes me sad since I know I'm alone, and sometimes it just makes me feel guilty.
sure. sometimes several times a day the relief is only temporary after all and i need activies to keep me mind off being sad
I don't use that as a form of distraction at his current time even though I'm sure I did when I was younger... Never did the sex though probably masturbation because that's all I would of done anyways.
Sex, yes. But not masturbation. I guess I use sex to cover up the holes in my life, which as I have found out is not that good of an idea. I am pretty much "tired" of it. I am only 22 and now I feel like I just want to grow old with somebody.