Sex Drive

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by 30something, Apr 22, 2008.

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  1. 30something

    30something Guest

    What do you think is a "normal" sex drive for a 30 something male?

    I wish i thought about it a little less than I do.

    I really enjoy hugging, kissing etc, but nearly always find myself actively pushing my g/f to the next step. I care about her, and obviously im very attracted to her physically, her skin is silky smooth, and I only have to touch her for a short period of time before that desire kicks in.

    She doesnt have the same drive as me, and lately a couple things she has said makes me wonder if im becoming obsessed with the physical, at the cost of other things in our relationship. I dont want to be that way. Maybe im making up for many years of a living a VERY frugal sex life.

    Why cant we just hug, kiss and enjoy the warmth of our bodies coming together without going to the next step.
  2. Lead Savior

    Lead Savior Well-Known Member

    I know for a fact that I wouldn't be able to cuddle without getting hard, even if I just wanted to cuddle. I think it is normal sir
  3. bleach

    bleach Well-Known Member

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