Sex Vs Masturbation

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by boo, Jun 3, 2010.

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Sex Vs Masturbation.

  1. Sex.

    61 vote(s)
    53.5%
  2. Masturbation.

    40 vote(s)
    35.1%
  3. I rather not say.

    13 vote(s)
    11.4%
  1. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    What are pros and cons of each?

    Pros of masturbation:

    - No foreplay
    - No diseases
    - No string attach
    - Easy access

    Cons of masturbation:

    - It gets lonely
    - Easy to abuse


    In your opinion, how does masturbation compare to full sex?
     
  2. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Given my problems with sex, I have no choice but to choose masturbation.
     
  3. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    I choose sex, because its more fun with another person involved that cares and respects your boundries, its just hard to find such a person.
    but on the other hand with masturbation you can get off (relatively) easily, as you know what you like and what you want and you dont have to worry about another person enjoying themselves
     
  4. KittyGirl

    KittyGirl Well-Known Member

    Okay...I've found that I can only take out my physical stress through sex and not masturbation.
    I've got zero trust in people though--- so I was only able to find one person whom I was comfortable having sex with- and now I'm back to being a ball of stress again.

    ...yippee. -__-
     
  5. Rukia

    Rukia Well-Known Member

    I haven't really ever had good sex, so for me masturbation is better. Not that that happens often either.
     
  6. Kaos General

    Kaos General Well-Known Member

    I choose sex all day long, its more fun with people
     
  7. Prinnctopher's Belt

    Prinnctopher's Belt Antiquities Friend SF Supporter

    Presuming you're having sex with someone whom you're in a caring relationship, and not some hooker or hoe, then yeah sex is better than masturbating alone. Outside of such a relationship, masturbation is better.
     
  8. Viro

    Viro Well-Known Member

    Neither... :sad:
     
  9. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    I have more experience with both types of sexual activity then I care to admit to but for sure hot erotic sex with a caring partner blows masturbation away...when it comes down to it I am the best I ever had but still the best masturbation session, a record 19 orgasms, does not compare to sex with a adept and loving partner.
     
  10. kitanai

    kitanai Well-Known Member

    lol i am the best i ever had . that was cute

    sex is always better then bateing .
    but i sexually abuse myself
    its proven to be yet another addiction
     
  11. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    :eek:ld: what's sex?...and I don't remember that other word! :eek:ld:

    :popcorn:
     
  12. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    >.< '
     
  13. jjjoooggg2

    jjjoooggg2 Well-Known Member

    Real Sex:
    Having many partners leads to:
    Less chance of staying monogamous after marraige and being satisfied with one partner.
    Baggage and psychological aftermath.
    Drama.
     
  14. 1izombie

    1izombie Well-Known Member

    masturbation is the only sex ive ever had yippee for me!!! :reub:
     
  15. alices_ponder

    alices_ponder Well-Known Member

    I chose sex because I completely hate masturbation. I never do it and if I ever do, it feels weird and unusual for me. When me and my boyfriend have sex it always feels really good and it is nice to have that closeness with someone else :)
     
  16. alices_ponder

    alices_ponder Well-Known Member

    Hahahhahaahah! That is freaking hilarious! :spaz:
     
  17. Vitreledonellidae

    Vitreledonellidae Well-Known Member

    i find sex only good with a person you love, otherwise neither
     
  18. brainstorm

    brainstorm Well-Known Member

    Masturbation, for me, is better than sex with an escort, even an escort with which there is a relationship.

    But since I'm 33 and still haven't had sex as part of a loving relationship, I can't comment on that. I hope it's better than masturbation...
     
  19. Avarice

    Avarice Well-Known Member

    Neither. Both are disgusting. =/
     
  20. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

    That's an awesome answer! haha