My sex drive has gone. Vanished. I've been like this for just over a year now, I dunno what the hell is wrong with me. I have a girlfriend, who I'm so lucky to be with, and well lets just say she wants to do things guys my age only dream about... But I'm just not excited about it. I don't even feel horny anymore, I never used to be like this. Sometimes I see sex as a chore, a task I have to do. I'm not confused about my sexuality, I'm 100% heterosexual. I don't have a disorder like erectile dysfunction or anything, everything works (that i am aware of). I've had a lot of sex since I've felt like this, though sometimes it wasn't exactly natural, I've used a viagra alternative sometimes, just so I could get it over and done with I guess (sounds a bit crude I know, I wasn't like a robot, was nice, sensual, and we both enjoy it) It's just I feel... dead... I rarely get genuinely excited about anything these days, not just about sex. But it's really getting me down, not being interested in sex. I think my head wants it, but my soul isn't interested, or perhaps it is the other way round. I really don't know what to do, I've only written about it here, kind of a last minute thing, as I know she wants me tonight, but I just want to sit around feeling sorry for myself. What do I do? Anybody else felt like this? male/female/straight/gay/bi it doesn't matter, please let me know. Thanks - Jack.