Sexual frustration is eating me away

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by doggytears, May 1, 2010.

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  1. doggytears

    doggytears Active Member

    In a nutshell:-
    1. I am contemplating suicide
    2. Sexual frustration is eating me away.

    First of all, given the nature of my frustrations I am apprehensive that this post might end up reading like a humorous rant or invite criticism of some sort. But the truth is that I'm so utterly starved of sexual activity that I've been contemplating suicide for a while now.

    Now before all the brick-bats arrive lambasting me for wanting to kill myself over something as (reasonably) trivial as sex, let me explain further. I live in a society where relationships, premarital sex and dating in general _was_ looked down upon as something scandalous and forbidden in all walks of life. I speak of this in the past tense because this has suddenly changed and with this whole globalization-cum-influence-of-the-west-cum-liberalization, a healthy number of people in and around me are finally enjoying the fruits of a sexually liberated society.

    For whatever reasons, (be it my modest socioeconomic background, or the fact that all my co-workers are male, or my own reticence and inherent desire to be left alone), I am not a part of this new generation of lovers, whose rapid foray into sexual expressiveness is nothing short of remarkable.

    Now don't get me wrong, as a person, I'm not very keen on being in a relationship or experimenting with sex. Somehow, nature has cursed me with a raging libido that is enormous and too intense for a person who likes to be left alone. I suffer through each moment battling with this sexual desire and I cannot take it any longer. Before I resort to something unbecoming (such as seeking out *****s, etc), I think it is better that I end this miserable life while I still have my dignity :cry:
     
  2. Louis03

    Louis03 Well-Known Member

    Hey, welcome to SF. The need for sex / love is a basic human need, nothing trivial about it. Things can change but change requires work & effort. If you want to be left alone people will leave you alone. IMO you should try and take baby steps towards being a little more "out there" if you're that unhappy. Sound good?

    Stick around there are plenty of people to talk to and no one will laugh (I don't think), we understand.
     
  3. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    Hey Doggy Tears,
    Sexual frustration can have other psycological affects on you.. I agree with Louis that you need to get out there more and experiment..I'm sure you will meet a nice young lady or young man(don't know what sex you are) that you should take it slow with and eventually work in petting and eventually sex.. You have to have exposure to get noticed..Please keep posting here.. I'm sure that there are other members here who don't think it is funny..Take Care!!!
     
  4. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

    How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?
     
  5. alloutoftears

    alloutoftears Account Closed

    some of us get left on the shelf, not a pleasant fact but a fact nonetheless

    there are adult social networking sites specifically designed so people can get together and f**k, not saying they're the answer but maybe they could help u.

    i don't use them personally (i'm past caring anymore, that particular dream is dead) but i know they exist.

    if you are an adult and are responsible for your own actions and willing to be mature in your approach pm me and ill talk to u.
     
  6. E69

    E69 Member

    I dont mean to be rude, but when you have NO libido you will understand what a curse feels like.

    <Mod Edit, WildCherry: Rude> I would suggest you go out to the bar tonight, and meet some girls.

    The solution for you is to get out of the house and meet women.

    Go out. Do some shots of alcohol. Talk to girls. Repeat every weekend until you find a girl who wants to sleep with you, and your problem is solved.
     
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  7. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    I did some editing on E69's post; please remember that everyone's problems are important and matter. There's absolutely no need to be rude or condescending.
     
  8. lonercarrot

    lonercarrot Well-Known Member

    so masturbate or have sex and your problem is solved?
     
  9. damage.case

    damage.case Well-Known Member

    There's nothing wrong with hiring a pro.
     
  10. jjjoooggg2

    jjjoooggg2 Well-Known Member

    You're not alone. Sir Isaac Newton(created Calculus) died a virgin at 84 years old. Although, Einstein cheated on his wife frequently and ended up divorced.

    Are high class escorts safe?
     
  11. morning rush

    morning rush Well-Known Member

    don't listen to this retard, who obviously has some anger issues....

    well I would say masturbate...whether your a girl of boy, you can still pleasure yourself to release some angst...it has nothing but good healthy and beneficial to your body, masturbating is good for the heart, good for the blood flow, and helps with the flow of your fluids...relieves stress, makes you happier and healthier...so try it until you find the right person to share yourself with...

    I can relate to what your saying...but for me I dont want the one night stands...I want a relationship that grows and sex becomes natural...so it can be frustrating to have all these desires and have no one to share it with...
     
  12. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    Oh come on now, you did not just say that?
     
  13. jjjoooggg2

    jjjoooggg2 Well-Known Member

    Could be worse. Could be impotent. At least you know you're loaded. There are problems with having sex too.
     
  14. asking_advice

    asking_advice Well-Known Member

    before i have problem in sex but now when i understand that there are more important than sex and to feel love by others. just be content in yourself, appreciate things you have like friends, family, money, school, work..

    dont kill yourself because of guilt. i understand you and most of us here =) if you need someone to talk. you can pm me.
     
  15. asking_advice

    asking_advice Well-Known Member

    dont look that way.. there are reasons why the libido is too much like longing for love.. some people thought.. sex is same as love..
     
  16. lonercarrot

    lonercarrot Well-Known Member

    But isn't that the solution? Everyone has these urges and there are two easy ways to satisfy them. It's stupid to think either one of those is degrading or wrong in some way
     
  17. jjjoooggg2

    jjjoooggg2 Well-Known Member

    Having multiple partners will increase your chance of divorce and have less chance of being faithful. Problem is comparing each partner and keeping libido with a single partner. Also I should mention diseases. Also psychological problems seperating from partners. these findings are based on studies. I'm not against premarital, but caution promiscuity. Your friends will age faster, I suppose and have issues with future partners.
     
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  18. damage.case

    damage.case Well-Known Member

    Hookers are wonderful. You won't be rejected. You don't have to worry about how you perform or be concerned with pleasing her. You can do things with her that you wouldn't feel comfortable doing with a girlfriend or such. You get your choice of who to have. You can be getting down in less than 1 hour. Best of all, when you're done she leaves and never calls.
     
  19. Forgotten_Man

    Forgotten_Man Well-Known Member

    My raging libido is doing the same to me. Especially since I recently lost my lover.
     
  20. jjjoooggg2

    jjjoooggg2 Well-Known Member

    Sexual appetite might be a side effect of a deeper problem. For me, it was my brother's death. It may be that you using sex as a bandaid for a deeper problem. Isn't that what addiction comes from. I could be wrong. But it was only immediately after my brother's death that I got hooked on pornography for over a decade.
     
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