I think it would be fair to say I've had a pretty crap set of experiences in my life so far, mentally ans physically abusive dad, partners, miscarriges, are jut a few of the things I could mention. So after a very rocky start and 3 children, imagine my amazement when I met who I thought was the man of my dreams. I knew his father was very dominant. But my partner was not ready to admit to the full extent. Anyway to cut a long story short, we have been very happy for 12 years until he had a car crash almost 4 years ago, which left us unable to have a normal physical relationship. I woud like to point out he's not 'seriously' injured, but will procrasinate beyond belief about getting help. I eventually broke down a couple of months ago and told him the effect it was having on me. He then said he was sick of the 2 older children arguing and left. That was 2 months ago, he has emotionally shut down and won't discuss the relationship at all. I lost both of my parent to cancer within a 12 week period, and had an ectopic pregnency all in the past few years. The trust I had in this man is shattered. I have attempted suicide in the past, but this time really feel like enough is enough, I want peace.