Here is the problem. My fiancee has the biggest problem trusting me. I just cant understand why. It makes my life nearly unbearable. I'll try and explain the best i can. basically she has zero trust in me. not because she thinks i will cheat on her or have i in the past. She just doesn't trust me. plain and simple. We have been together for about two years. At first everything was fine between us. It started when i moved. I moved to another town. About 1:30 away. I noticed a change at that point. She started to keep tabs on me. she had to know what i was doing at all times. and if for some reason i wasn't doing anything. just "chilling" i had to call her or she would get mad at me. Large leap in time it has gotten really bad. i really cant talk to another girl with out "getting in trouble". And when i say talking i mean stuff like.. HI How are you How was you weekend Did you study for the test so on and yeah..... its small talk. basically she says to me why do i care if they studied. why do i have to say hi to them. then she will interigate me and ask if like that person. and if i think they are pretty. how i know them and so forth. its so stupid. i have to tell her where i am at all times and if at anytime i have the chance i need to either call or text her. i've been in so many argument because apperently while i was at work i didnt send her enough text messages or didnt call her during my lunch break. She even gets mad at my friends. If im on the phone with her and my friends say something that she doesnt like she expects me to cuss them out on the spot.i have been talking to her about this but she is just so stubburn and unwilling to change. everyday i get interigated. its pretty hard. i've gotten advice from my sister.. apprentally i should just lie when she asks if i talked to any girls during the day. but i really dont see why i need to lie about something so simple.