Should I come out to my 2 best friends? I'm a 25 years old male and I'm bisexual. Being bisexual may not seem to be a big deal like being gay but for me it's not much different than being gay cos I have never slept,kissed or even dated a girl. I tried but I'm not masculine and I'm not the kind of male that girls like. However it's easy to meet with gays online. I live in Turkey. Here in the city I live in almost all gays/bisexuals are in the closet so there are many people I can meet online. Anyway I only have sex with man and noone I know in real life knows about it except the people I meet online and than meet in real life. I feel like I'm hiding some part of me from everyone I know. Not just hiding the fact that I have sex with man but also some part of who I really am. I don't know other countries but here in Turkey gays/bisexuals arent looked upon well. I dont care much about the teasing etc since I was teased and bullied in primary/middle school everyday and I'm a lot stronger emotionally now but there's a very distant relative in our family who is gay. I have never seen him. But whenever his name comes up, everybody starts laughing even if nothing has been said about him except his name. And I'm afraid the same can happen to me if I come up. Anyway I want to tell my 2 best friends at least. They're twins and I know I can trust them, I mean I'm sure they won't tell anyone. Even if people find out somehow, I'm not scared about that too much since I want to come out anyway. But how will it affect our friendship if I tell them? I know they didnt talk good about gays in the past but I didnt either. Right now they're in university in another city and they'll come here 1-2 months later. Should I wait it or tell it online? We talk on msn everyday and it will be easier on msn. I wont be able to see their reaction and that sucks though. Do you think I should tell them and if I should, how? Any tips?