OK, the person this post is about is not dead, yet. Here goes anyway. I have not spoken or seen my Dad for just over 3 years, nor have I tried to contact him either. He also has not tried to contact me. I know he his dying from some sort of cancer and he will be dead by the summer, I don't know the full details as I hear all about it from a friend of a friend of a friend etc. Considering I have a lot of anger, resentment etc for him, should I contact him before he dies?