I've been married for a few months now, my husband has been very abusive, I told him I would give him a final chance after he got out of the hospital, since then I've given him sub/addition chances within that last chance. More recently he has been very emotionally and verbally abusive to the point that I told him a few days ago that if he did it again, it would be over. Last night, I was paied yesterday, I bought something online, they charged me twice, but it was just a pending charge and nothing had gone through, I knew this after I bought it but I didn't tell my husband because I knew what he would do. He found out right before I went to bed, he was yellin g and screaming, telling me how stupid and incompetent I am and other things that I won't mention. So he forced me to call the bank, they of course couldnt do anything until the charge is posted. After while, he apologized and everything. Right now I'm deciding if I should just let it go or if its time for it to be over. I'm so tired of everything.