Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by ~CazzaAngel~, Apr 16, 2010.
Should I go out to the bar alone tonight?
No, drinking by yourself is not good.
Going to a bar isn't drinking alone... Drinking alone is when you're going straight from the bottle in a dark room with only your cat for company.
I would say no, think of the potential social disasters!
-Guy with severe social anxiety (probably not the best advisor)
Yeah, I have Anxiety/Agorahobia.
You are correct and I should rephrase what I wrote. Going to the bar by herself would mean that she is alone as in she doesn't know anyone that is there. Indeed, she will have the other people in the bar with her drinking but she will most likely drink by herself if she doesn't know the people or isn't comfortable socializing with them.
How is it alone if your cat is there? I'm alone. Don't even have a cat. Thankfully I don't drink. But I don't drink alone, constantly.
You should get a cat, though they're really not at all like humans as far as getting smashed on a Friday night go.
i'ld say no, i always found going out by myself just made me feel even sorrier for myself. maybe thats just me.. but seeing all those ppl together just made me realize how alone i truly was
naww-stay with us. we're good company!
I second this!
I third it? Yeah I'm stuck at home once again just for the record.
The question that matters is do you want to?
Yes and no. I can't stay in this apartment and think about 3 years in a relationship down the toilet. I don't know. :hiding:
What would going to a bar mean for you? I'm not sure if you drink alcohol, but I always think of it like this about any type of coping that could turn self-destructive. If you're thinking about it compulsively then - maybe it's not such a good idea. If you want to have a change of scenery,a good time and you're feeling well , why not?
I ended up going, and I now wish I hadn't.