Okay I'm making this thread to let out some feelings that have been kept secretive. So I have this friend. We have each other added on Facebook. We met 8 years ago on another social media site & have been good friends since. We were a lot closer then. Now we just like and comment on a few stuff. That's it. We don't really private message each other or talk in convo like we use to which I get that. Time has passed. We had just became teenagers & now were adults. We had a lot more free time then than we do now so that's not what's bothering me. I should go ahead and mention up-hand that we are of different races. He is African American & lives in New York. I am Caucasian & live in South Carolina. He's pretty much always been my gay best friend since he is gay & that doesn't bother me one bit. Now I'll tell you what does.... So I've noticed this past year that he's gotten pretty bad about this. Never use to be like this until all of this started out-breaking on the News. He is strongly into the Black Lives Matter movement. Always sharing the hashtag, putting down law enforcement of my race & pretty much uplifting his own race while continuing to put down mine. This bothers me because we've been friends for so long & he knows that I'm reading these posts all on Facebook that he shares about my own race. I don't want to start the Black Lives Matter argument & that's not what this thread is about so please refrain. It's about a good friend of mine putting down my race knowing that I'm reading it. I don't know if I ever come to mind when he shares these things or not. I never like or comment cause I don't want his other NY friends to jump on me. I did notice that I'm the only white person that does like or comment on his normal posts. It's like I'm his only white friend. That alone doesn't bother me though because he is my only black friend. Personally I'm an All Lives Matter kinda girl. I think Black Lives Matter is promoting more racism & harm than good but I don't post that on my Facebook for him to see. HOWEVER he shares posts bashing All Lives Matter for me to see. So my question is... Should this bother me? Should I say something to him about his posts? Perhaps this is the end of our friendship? I've been so tempted to unfriend him but I don't like doing so without giving a reason to that person first. I'm just so tired of him putting down my race for me to see. It's disrespectful to me. It may not be to some reading this but this is just how I feel. I'm a pretty sensitive person & I know sensitive people don't belong on social media like Facebook which is why I keep my friends count at only 84.